If you are not married, you are a man on an island. Everything good that happens to you is a feather in your cap. By the same token, all of the mistakes are your fault. Period. If you are married, on that day you formed a team, a small two-person team but nevertheless a team. It’s not always 50/50 but it sure is nice to have a right-hand man (or woman) who has a slightly different skill set on your team. You can do this; I’ll take care of that and everything will work out fine.